tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-825021343647347970.post4690108770477452404..comments2021-12-22T02:18:18.055-08:00Comments on The WoN Connection: Pattern RecognitionCZBZhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09575206236892096611noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-825021343647347970.post-57904233130238707472017-09-28T09:58:33.934-07:002017-09-28T09:58:33.934-07:00Excellent-hits home for me. I kept thinking "...Excellent-hits home for me. I kept thinking "the next time" will be different. How couldn't it be after getting down on his knees & begging for forgiveness.I so wanted to believe him. But, a few days later - strike with a vengeance/threaten/and apologize. The cyclical pattern & my constant of holding on to hope that I could be strong enough to endure - couldnt have been further from the truth ♡Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-825021343647347970.post-78101186964157252602013-07-03T19:39:32.873-07:002013-07-03T19:39:32.873-07:00Hello "The Owl",
We could use a few owl...Hello "The Owl",<br /><br />We could use a few owls around this place. They represent the deep connection between wisdom and intuition. You need a lot of both if you're in a narcissistic relationship. ;-)<br /><br />Like you, ruining holidays and birthdays was a pattern that I could not see until someone mentioned this as a "pattern" with self-centered people. The theory being, I suppose, that their envy is triggered whenever someone else is happy, or having fun, or the center of everyone's attention.<br /><br />Thanks for commenting...I hope to hear from you again!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />CZCZBZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09575206236892096611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-825021343647347970.post-70353649726134799102013-07-03T17:24:12.197-07:002013-07-03T17:24:12.197-07:00Even the judges say, "don't bring up an e... Even the judges say, "don't bring up an event from the past," but I think of the events where I learned something. Some of those events were four years ago, some were ten years ago. If it was the lightbulb moment, then that is the moment to discuss. That we need to watch the ACTIONS and not the words is also very true, and hard to do. The one that makes tears come behind my eyes is the ruining the holidays, ruining the birthdays (of others). That has happened so many times, and I never before quite saw it as a pattern. I only see it now for the first time. It is so sad. The Owlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00178883457467641998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-825021343647347970.post-72966113709451135592012-05-31T18:45:39.726-07:002012-05-31T18:45:39.726-07:00Hi Anonymous!
This IS an excellent article. It...Hi Anonymous!<br /><br />This IS an excellent article. It's curious how we haven't noticed the patterns, considering how frequently they're repeated. I think we're just so overwhelmed and confused because we assume the 'raging' person is operating under the same rules as ourselves. Once you recognize the pattern to narcissistic rage attacks, THEN you have a chance to take care of yourself.<br /><br />It's hard to take care of yourself if you're stunned and confused! <br /><br />I am sorry you're suffering...the 'rage' is a horrid thing to deal with. Not to mention the other patterns to her behavior that you're recognizing.<br /><br />Why don't you join our message board and let us help you better understand narcissism? We have a fantastic group of people (mostly women) but occasionally a man dares join our group. Our site is located here: WebOfNarcissism.com<br /><br />Hugs,<br />CZCZBZhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09575206236892096611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-825021343647347970.post-38434015197773616742012-05-27T23:25:08.387-07:002012-05-27T23:25:08.387-07:00A facinating truth....well written and I get it......A facinating truth....well written and I get it...finally. It really hit the nail on the head. I have numerous issues where my wife feel she has the right to ignore how she hurt me. It is almost as if anything longer than 10 min is the past to her. Everytime I say there is a patters she has a building rage episode.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com